Warrior Praise

Relationships and the Energetic Cords We Attach to Them

Relationships and the Energetic Cords We Attach to Them

May 22nd 2010 • Energy Cords and Threads

I have often come across people in my life that choose to see only one way to live. This choice is brought on by how they were raised, what influences they have had in their lives, and how they choose to integrate those experiences into their personal power. I believe this is a curious place in the human mind as individuals feel and see each experience differently.

How we use these traits to feel secure or get what we need is at the heart of it. If we do not feel safe then we create a way to make it happen. It can be through anger, grief, fear and layers of victim energy that we control our environment. By withholding emotion from those around us, we can elicit different responses until we find one that we like or one that consistently works. This is how cords come into being between people. When we interact with others, we create these attachments between both parties, especially when the interaction is emotionally charged.

A cord is a energetic structure that sends information back and forth between people. When we encounter others, cords are created between both people. No matter where you are in the world, cords are made up of energy, and they have no boundaries in regards to where each person lives or works. My personal belief is that we should not carry cords from anyone; we each have our own information we listen to and draw from. Our DNA and cellular memory is unique to each of us and if we have or allow cords then we are either being fed information that isn’t our own, and doesn’t fit our bodies or drawing information from another person and it won’t fit. Generally, this will bring on emotional pain. There are reasons we maintain cords with others. We must look at what it is we need or want that is creating these unwanted cords.

How to identify cords we have with other people.

In this segment, you will find information to help you indentify the signs of being corded into. There are many ways cords will appear and feel in the body. In the first part of this series, I mentioned how strong emotions will allow cords between people. When we are involved with others, our attachments to them will create cords; this is especially true with long-term relationships.

Examples of when cording can occur are when we love someone and can’t imagine what life would be without them, and when you want to remove someone from your life and can’t seem to walk away. When looking at family or work groups, more than likely, you will have multiple cords that connect through all parties and some of these cords may have been in place for years, while others come in with new experiences and relationships. There are many beliefs around cords and loving someone, so you must find your own comfort zone with this concept. My personal belief is that we should not carry cords from anyone; we each have our own information we listen to and draw from.

When we love someone and there is a cord between us, we are imprisoning ourselves along with the other person. This creates a place of dependency due to running emotions and information between each other. Neither person is able to access his or her own information. Thus, the information that is shared via the cord seems to only generate conversations in the mind about what the problem is and not the solution. It is not in your or the other persons best interest to continue feeding into their way of being simply because you love them. Typically when you allow this to happen, the emotional cord may be based in fear. Fear of someone leaving you; fear they will not love you if you change, etc.

Another example of being corded into is; when someone in our life we are in conflict with and we cannot seem to resolve the conflict or move him or her out of our life. Emotions like jealousy, revenge, anger, competition will also bring on cords. Therefore, if you are experiencing any of these you have a cord with or the person has corded into you. People will use cords to control others; this gives them power to manipulate the relationship to “get” something whether it’s an emotional response, or getting them to do something for them.

When you have done something for someone and you do not feel good about it, then the information then the information you used while doing this something was not your own. Through a cord, you were used by the information being passed from the other person. If you had the thoughts “this just doesn’t feel right” but did whatever you were asked, then your own information was overridden by the information coming through the cord.

What do Cords feel like and how do you know you have them?

Think about the last time you were confused and couldn’t make a decision to bring about the desired outcome that satisfied you.. The thoughts that surround you are the “what if’s” in life. Many times you do nothing and time runs out on what you were suppose to accomplish. Lethargy sets in, making decisions even harder. These are direct signs that you have been corded into.

Looking for and identifying cords can be a bit like looking for a needle in a hay stack as sometimes you cannot identify where in your body you’ve been corded into. One way to identify cords is to look at the emotions that come up surrounding what you want to change. Is it grief, anger, joy or a feeling like you are lacking in some way? Remembering from part one of this series, cords come into being in your body via strong emotions. Whatever form it takes, identifying the emotion will lead you to where it sits in your physical and emotional body.

We have seven energy centers in our bodies, the first is at the base of your tail bone and the seventh one is on the top of your head. This system has different names depending on your beliefs but for the moment, I will explain them as I’ve come to know them.

These energy centers are the chakras or the chakra system, (see the article on chakras). Each chakra has a different job or purpose and all are vital to your emotional, energetic and physical wellbeing. When you have a cord it will be attached to one of these chakras in order to accomplish whatever the desired outcome that you or something else is looking for. When this happens, ask yourself what am I feeling and why would someone cord into me?

Cords are used to control someone’s actions whether it’s through love, friendship or emotional bullying. As an example, when you find yourself unable to follow your true feelings in a group environment, or you have a differing opinion from someone you are unable to communicate, you have a cord that helps the other person(s) run their information through you keeping you drawn in with their way of thinking. It’s that feeling that you know something doesn’t feel right but you can’t put your figure on it.

Do you have a person in your life who says they are your friend but when you are around them you end up with an upset stomach, headache, or general uneasiness? It could be the very same person you go to for advice or reassurance that has corded into you. Ask them what they think and they will reassure you that they are right and you should stop worrying. This gives them control and a sense of power over you leaving you feeling like “its” just not right. However, you give over to the thought they wouldn’t steer you wrong as they are your friend or someone who loves you. Most often, this isn’t done maliciously or intentionally, it is human nature to find a pecking order or place in your life that makes you feel comfortable.

The thought here is to gain an awareness of how you and your emotional body feels, are you doing what’s best in your life for you? Are you giving your power away to belong and feel needed?

Make awareness a part of your daily life. Look at who you keep around you and why. Most important, be gentle with yourself and those around you, most people know not what they do.

Watch for my next posting on cords, part 4. Part 4 will cover how to remove cords and heal the affected chakra(s).

Till then, be well and find joy in the little things.

 

About the Author

Katharine Andrews

http://healingthroughawareness.com

AB Band New cord set ups

Red Flower Heart Murano Lampwork Glass Pendant Necklace Ribbon Cord Earrings Set $0.99

TURCK RKG 4.4T-2-RSG 4.4/S101 CORD SET FLEX LIFE NEW $38.99

TURCK RK 4.5T-10/S618 CORD SET, EURO-FAST, SINGLE ENDED, FEMALE, 5 P, 10 M NEW $41.99

TURCK RKG 4.4T-3-RSG 4.4T/S101 CORD SET EUROFAST NEW $45.99

1Set Vintage Golden & Silvery Stripe Cross Pendant Cord Necklace & Earrings $2.85

Marinco Phone Cord Set 50 Ft $75.00

Heart AB RS Necklace on Red Cord & Earrings Set (T35) $15.98

Arrow Hart AH23032N, AH23035N Power Lock Cord Conn. Set $35.00

SET 100 ESCAPULARIOS SANTA MUERTE holy death different cord colors PROTECCION $34.99

Brad Harrison cord set mini-change woodhead 41108, nib $9.99

20 bulb Light Strand Set – GREEN 8 ft. Cord + crafts + $3.50

Purple Swirl Lampwork Glass Murano Bead Pendant Ribbon Necklace Cord Earring Set $0.99

Burnished Gold Tone Turquoise Acrylic Dangle Cluster Cord Necklace Set $15.00

4PC Cable Clamp Cord Cable Management Set Organizer $10.79

Brad Harrison cord set woodhead 704001a13f2001 $9.99

Tiger Eye Sterling Silver Roundels Bracelet & Leather Cord Heart Necklace Set $358.20

NWT b.t. kids Boy’s 3 Pc. Vest, Denim Shirt & Cords Outfit Set, 6, $48 $16.99

GRA TZITZIT SHAMMASH SET THICK OR THIN CORDS TALLIT $8.99

HOLY TEMPLE COLORS TZITZIT SET THICK OR THIN CORDS GRA $11.69

Silver Red Stone Medallion Set Earrings & Necklace Chunky Cord Chain USA SELLER $25.99

PYREX “COSMOPOLITAN” CASSEROLE SET 475-8 2 1/2 QT./LID/BURNER/CORD/INSTRUCTIONS $19.99

37 Cord Glove Box Set Right and Left $114.00

Rose Coral Circlet and Bead Braided Cord Necklace and Earrings Set – Great Price $11.99

12PCS LOTS whole set zodiac zodia charm bracelet cord GENUINE leather wholesale $0.99

Metal Fusion String Rip cord Launcher Beyblade Battle Toy Set #8004 $12.99

NEW CableClamp 4PC Cord Cable Management Set Organize $11.95

CHUNKY WESTERN STATEMENT SILVER HORSE NECKLACE BLACK CORD SET Fast Free Ship $14.99

Metal Fusion Rotate Rip cord Launcher Beyblade Battle Toy Set #8007A $9.99

fone Tunes Mini Usb to 3.5 mm Head Set Adapter Cord Phone to Headphones NEW NIB $9.99

ALLEN BRADLEY 889N-F3AFC-12F CORD SET NEW 889NF3AFC12F $30.00

CHUNKY BIB CORD STATEMENT SILVER HEART NECKLACE JEWELRY SET Fast Free Ship $14.99

Lumberg Sensor Cord Set RST-4RKT-4-633/0.3M $12.00

Necklace Set Silver Tone Flower Pendant on Black Cords w Colorful Beads $9.50

Turck #RKG-4.4T-RSE 4.4T/S600 Cord Set M/F (N) W2/27 $66.50

Rose Coral Circlet and Bead Braided Cord Necklace and Earrings Set – Great Price $10.99

Marx Train set 50 watt Transformer with lock-on & Perfect cord NO RESERVE L@@K $1.99

Vonage MD6400 Cordless Phone System Set of 2 Phones & Cradles & Power Cords USED $9.99

Silver Tone Multi Color Epoxy Turtle On Black Cord Necklace Set $9.99

Charles 15 Amp To 30 Amp 35′ Cord Set – Yellow – 125V $75.17

Pepperl & Fuchs Sensor Cord Set V1-W-YE2M-PVC 4 wire $16.00

Brighton HERITAGE Heart Black Cord Necklace Bracelet Earrings * 3 piece set * $73.99

Pepperl & Fuchs Sensor Cord Set V1-W-YE2M-PUR 4 wire $16.00

NEW! Boat, Marine Marinco TV/Telephone Cord Set 50ft PHTV6599-50 $250.00

SET OF 8 GOLF IRON SHAFTS, SR. FLEX, XPC ULTRA LITE 65 WITH SOFTIE CORD GRIPS $39.00

HARRIS DRACON TS21 TEST SET LINEMANS PHONE TELEPHONE BUTT-IN w/ LINE CORDS $39.99

Lil’ Buttie Pro Telephone Test Set – LB220 w/ Headset and Cord $94.99

5 TURCK RIGHT ANGLE EURO FAST CORD SETS MODEL WK 4T-6 $26.99

Designer look fashion necklace set animal print silver black cord chunky charm $22.99

WHITE Electric Guitar Set-gig bag+eBook+strap+cord-NEW! $69.95

Black Stone Chip Cord Necklace Set Cute! $7.99

Cuisinart ICE-30BC Pure Indulgence 2-Quart Automatic Frozen Yogurt, Sorbet, and Ice Cream Maker $73.95 …

Cuisinart GR-4N 5-in-1 Griddler $185.00 The Cuisinart(tm) Griddler makes “multifunctional” an understatement! Make perfect panini… plus! With four separate cooking options, it can handle everything from pancakes to sausages to grilled cheese to steaks, hamburgers and panini. It helps you prepare more servings of more kinds of food in less time, so you can cook for a crowd — no one has to wait!Simply change the cooking plates and adju…

Cuisinart ICE-21 Frozen Yogurt-Ice Cream & Sorbet Maker Now you can enjoy the finest homemade frozen treats at home! The fully automatic Cuisinart Frozen Yogurt-Ice Cream & Sorbet Maker lets you make your favorites in 20 minutes or less, with no fuss and no mess. Just add ingredients to the bowl, press ON and the machine does the rest!…

The Art of Arturo Benedetti Michelangeli – collectors edition 8-CD set $33.68 All products are BRAND NEW and factory sealed. Fast shipping and 100% Satisfaction Guaranteed….

The Berlioz Experience: Symphonic, Choral, Vocal Works [Box Set] $79.98 All products are BRAND NEW and factory sealed. Fast shipping and 100% Satisfaction Guaranteed….

Suscitatio Somnus $9.54 All products are BRAND NEW and factory sealed. Fast shipping and 100% Satisfaction Guaranteed….

Master Cutlery HK-106320 Outdoor Fixed Blade Knife, 7.5-Inch Overall $4.95 This is the Mini Full Tang Survival Knife Magnesium Fire Starter. The Blade of the knife has been constructed from 440 Stainless Steel with a tanto point. The sheath is tough green nylon with a belt loop. The knife includes a magnesium rod fire starter….

Gerber 31-000699 Bear Grylls Survival Series Fire Starter $8.48 The product of collaboration between Gerber and survival expert Bear Grylls, the Survival Series Fire Starter is a must-have for scouting, camping, and hiking expeditions. Small and compact, this fire starter offers years of use. Watertight construction keeps tinder safe and dry, so when you need it, you can trust that it’s ready to use.Survival Series Fire StarterAt a Glance:Compact fire starter …

Black & Decker 9099KC 7.2-Volt Cordless Drill with Keyless Chuck $19.88 BLACK and DECKER CORDLESS DRILL *7.2 volts *1/2″ chuck size *Ni-CD battery *2 speed reversible *Mid handle design *Keyless chuck *2 year warr…

Boy Meets World: The Complete Sixth Season $9.15 All 22 episodes from season six–including the two-part “His Answer,” “Hogs and Kisses,” “Cutting the Cord,” “My Baby Valentine,” and “State of the Unions”–are featured in a three-disc set. 8 3/4 hrs. total. Standard; Soundtrack: English Dolby Digital stereo. **22 episodes on 3 discs. 8 3/4 hrs.**…

48in Cord Set Premium $40.99 48IN CORD SET PREMIUM

Cuisinart Power Cord for Fondue Set $6 Power Cord for Fondue Set: CFO-3SS

Sanitaire 53574 Cord Hook Set $11.99 Sanitaire 53574 Cord Hook Set

General Wire SV-30-3 Cord Set for Motor #6355-GWS $13.37 General Wire SV-30-3 Cord Set for Motor #6355-GWS General Wire SV-30-3 Cord Set for Motor #6355-GWS Features: Cord Set for Motor #6355-GWS

Jumpking ENCLOSURE POLE BUNGEE CORD, set of 8 $19.99 ENCLOSURE POLE BUNGEE CORD, set of 8

Ts22a Test Set W/ 346a Cord $254.99 TS22A TEST SET W/ 346A CORD

Lil Buttie Pro Test Set-Bed Of Nails Cord Set $140.99 LIL BUTTIE PRO TEST SET-BED OF NAILS CORD SET

20pc Stretch Cord Set $17.99 Tie Down Just About Anything! This 20-piece stretch cord set is color-coded to identify 4 different lengths: eight 10″ cords (green), six 16″ (red), four 20″ (yellow), and two 24″ (blue). Each has 2 PVC-coated steel hooks. Dozens of uses around home, garage, workshop, and business. Keep a few in your vehicle.

Cord Set With Socket $5.95 Light Up Your KraftyBlok™ Simply cut an opening in the plastic cap of you KraftyBlok™ to securely fit the socket and install using the spring clip. Nightlight socket is prewired with 6 and 39; white cord with inline switch. Bulb not included.

The Spirit Cord $21.98 THE SPIRIT CORD reveals many insights and practical methods of Cord meditation, empowered vision and spiritual magic using a physical cord in a set of simple and powerful practices. These practices, known as forms, range from the metaphysical and ancestral traditions of the ancient world to a unique set of contemporary methods for transforming consciousness. The contemporary forms are the result of more than thirty years of work by R.J. Stewart and have been developed and tested in ongoing groups in the USA and Britain. R.J. Stewart is a Scottish author and composer, published worldwide, writing and teaching on mythic, spiritual, and magical subjects. For more information, go to www.rjstewart.org.

Stretch cord set Pack of 24 $46.66 The stretch cord set offers unlimited uses around garages homes gardens and more. Each cord has vinyl covered hook ends. Set comes with 2 stretch cords one green and one red. Comes packaged in poly bag with header card. Cords are 36 from end to end. Dimensions:. Length: 8. Height: 8. Width: 8

Stretch cord set Pack of 48 $69.98 The stretch cord set offers unlimited uses around garages homes gardens and more. Each cord has vinyl covered hook ends. Set comes with 2 stretch cords one green and one red. Comes packaged in poly bag with header card. Cords are 36 from end to end. Dimensions:. Length: 10. Height: 10. Width: 10

Stretch cord set Pack of 72 $85.29 The stretch cord set offers unlimited uses around garages homes gardens and more. Each cord has vinyl covered hook ends. Set comes with 2 stretch cords one green and one red. Comes packaged in poly bag with header card. Cords are 36 from end to end. Dimensions:. Length: 11. Height: 11. Width: 11

Power Cord 240v: HY $12.64 240v POWER CORD SET 16ga. 3 CONDUCTORBlack in color, heavy duty power cord 6 feet long and comes with 3 wire connectors.

AT&T 50 Foot Silver Line Cord 50 feet Line Cord $4.99 “50 Foot Silver Line Cord, This 50 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

Set of 2 Watertight Cord Connect $12.99 Hedge trimming, power tools, lighting…whatever your outdoor electrical needs, Cord Connect provides a watertight connection for cords. Unique clamshell design closes around each end of the cords, then twists to lock in place. No more disconnects in the middle of a job, no worries about snow or rain. Tapered ends ensure smooth pulling without getting caught. High impact plastic. Set of 2. Save! 2 or more $11.99 each.

Charles / Charles 30 Amp 75′ Cord Set – Yellow – 125V / 30PCM75L $186.49 Charles – Charles 30 Amp 75′ Cord Set – Yellow – 125V – 30PCM75L

Charles / Charles 30 Amp 25′ Cord Set – Yellow – 125V / 30PCM25L $84.97 Charles – Charles 30 Amp 25′ Cord Set – Yellow – 125V – 30PCM25L

Motorola CORD SET:18AWG SVT 3COND 7.5FT 238440000R $18.93 Motorola CORD SET:18AWG SVT 3COND 7.5FT 238440000R

Emerson Network 1M/3.3FT OUTPUT CORD SET FOR IEC-C20-IEC-C13 539031G5 $27.07 Emerson Network 1M/3.3FT OUTPUT CORD SET FOR IEC-C20-IEC-C13 539031G5

ELECTRIC CORD COVER BURGUNDY $8.98 Decorative cord hiders disguises unsightly cords around the house. Cover slides easily over cord segments as long as eight-and-a-half feet, neatly concealing the power supply for holiday displays, lamps or any set-up that calls for an extended cord. Machi

ELECTRIC CORD COVER TAUPE $8.98 Decorative cord hiders disguises unsightly cords around the house. Cover slides easily over cord segments as long as eight-and-a-half feet, neatly concealing the power supply for holiday displays, lamps or any set-up that calls for an extended cord. Machi

ELECTRIC CORD COVER CREAM $8.98 Decorative cord hiders disguises unsightly cords around the house. Cover slides easily over cord segments as long as eight-and-a-half feet, neatly concealing the power supply for holiday displays, lamps or any set-up that calls for an extended cord. Machi

Electric Cord Cover Taupe $8.98 Decorative cord hiders disguises unsightly cords around the house. Cover slides easily over cord segments as long as eight-and-a-half feet, neatly concealing the power supply for holiday displays, lamps or any set-up that calls for an extended cord. Machi

Electric Cord Cover Cream $8.98 Decorative cord hiders disguises unsightly cords around the house. Cover slides easily over cord segments as long as eight-and-a-half feet, neatly concealing the power supply for holiday displays, lamps or any set-up that calls for an extended cord. Machi

Electric Cord Cover Burgundy $6.99 Decorative cord hiders disguises unsightly cords around the house. Cover slides easily over cord segments as long as eight-and-a-half feet, neatly concealing the power supply for holiday displays, lamps or any set-up that calls for an extended cord. Machi

Maro Coaxial Cord Set For Hdtv And Net $87.99 Maro Coaxial Cord Set For Hdtv And Net . High definition coaxial cable features screw-on, F-style connections to ensure the best picture quality on your HDTV. 50′ length.

CORD AND CABLE ROLLERS $5.98 Cord and cable rollers secure and conceal messy, tangled cords up to 16 1/4′ in length. Perfect for entertainment units, computers, and more. Cord coils easily inside rugged case. Set of three. Polypropylene, 3 1/2 x 1 3/4”.

Cord And Cable Rollers $5.98 Cord and cable rollers secure and conceal messy, tangled cords up to 16 1/4′ in length. Perfect for entertainment units, computers, and more. Cord coils easily inside rugged case. Set of three. Polypropylene, 3 1/2 x 1 3/4”.

BFFs On A Cord Necklaces $5.25 Link up for life with this fun-loving BFF necklace set shared with your gal pal. The slim cord circles your neck with playful cube charms that warm the heart.

Jasco 50961 Bottle Lamp Kit White Cord $23.14 Bottle Lamp Kit 8 White Cord. Pushthrough socket. Bottle adapters. Cord set and fittings. UL Listed.

Alco Mfg. Co TC51184 12 Piece Bunjee Cord Set $19.73 12 Piece Bunjee Cord Set. Manufactured to the Highest Quality Available. Satisfaction Ensured. Huge selection to choose from.

Guardian GDSWTT 2 Person Tube Tent With Cord 5 Set $20.15 This handy emergency tent is made of waterproof polyethylene. It is fire retardant and includes instructions for use and a cord for set up.

6 Ft. Cord and Plug Set, For Up To 48 Inch Heat Strip $26.95 Give reach to your APW Wyott heat strips with this APW Wyott 75906 Cord and Plug Set. The APW Wyott 75906 Cord and Plug Set will work with heat strips up to 48 inch long and the cord measures 6 feet. The APW Wyott 75906 Cord and Plug Set is a necessary accessory for APW Wyott heat strips.

GE/RCA 25 Foot Black Line Cord 25 Ft Line Cord $4.99 “25 Foot Black Line Cord, This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

GE/RCA 25 Foot White Line Cord 25 Ft Line Cord $4.99 “25 Foot White Line Cord, This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

GE/RCA 25 Foot Ivory Line Cord 25 Ft Line Cord $4.99 “25 Foot Ivory Line Cord, This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-25 Foot Black Line Cord (2-Pack) 25 Foot Silver Line Cord $8.95 “25 Foot Black Line Cord (2-Pack), This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-25 Foot Black Line Cord (3-Pack) 25 Foot Silver Line Cord $11.95 “25 Foot Black Line Cord (3-Pack), This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-25 Foot White Line Cord (2-Pack) 25 Foot Silver Line Cord $8.95 “25 Foot White Line Cord (2-Pack), This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-25 Foot White Line Cord (3-Pack) 25 Foot Silver Line Cord $11.95 “25 Foot White Line Cord (3-Pack), This 25 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-50 Foot Silver Line Cord 50 Foot Silver Line Cord $4.99 “50 Foot Silver Line Cord, This 50 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-50 Foot Silver Line Cord (3-Pack) 50 Foot Silver Line Cord $11.95 “50 Foot Silver Line Cord (3-Pack), This 50 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”

AT&T ATT-50 Foot Silver Line Cord (2-Pack) 50 Foot Silver Line Cord $8.95 “50 Foot Silver Line Cord (2-Pack), This 50 Ft. line cord is a standard telephone cord set with 4-conductors and RJ11 male connectors on both ends.”